Lesson 3 — Values as a Decision OS
Deepening Your Understanding
2.3.10.8. Case Application Exercise
This exercise is designed to move values from reflection into operational practice. The goal is not to
imagine who you want to become, but to examine how values already influence your leadership behavior in real decision
contexts.
Instructions
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Step 1 — Identify Your Non-Negotiable Value
Choose one value that is already active in your leadership — not one you wish you embodied, but one that
consistently informs your instinctive sense of what is right, acceptable, or non-negotiable.
Write the value as a single word or short phrase. Examples:
- Integrity
- Respect
- Courage
- Transparency
- Accountability
- Empathy
Avoid explanation at this stage. The clarity will come later.
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Step 2 — Recall a Relevant Situation
Describe one recent situation — personal or professional — in which this value was challenged by:
- Time pressure
- Emotional discomfort
- External expectations
- Opportunity
- Risk
- Convenience
Avoid framing the situation as success or failure. Your task is to observe — not justify.
Document only:
- What happened
- How you responded
- What influenced your response
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Step 3 — Evaluate the Decision
Using the situation you described, reflect using these three guiding questions:
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Was the decision aligned with the value you identified?
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If alignment was maintained, what internal resource made that possible?
(Clarity, discipline, conviction, support, patience, boundaries, etc.)
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If alignment was compromised, what force created the opening for compromise?
(Fear, convenience, approval seeking, speed, uncertainty, avoidance, fatigue.)
Answer with precision — not narrative.
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Step 4 — Define One Reinforcing Behavior
Identify one concrete behavior that would strengthen alignment with this value in future decision environments.
This behavior must be:
- Specific — clear enough to recognize.
- Observable — visible to others.
- Repeatable — actionable in real time.
- Practical — something you can execute, not merely intend.
For example, instead of writing “communicate openly”, write:
“I will share relevant information within 24 hours, even if the update is incomplete or uncomfortable.”
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Step 5 — Write Your Alignment Statement
Write one sentence describing how you want this value to guide your decisions when pressure arises in the future.
This statement should function as a personal standard — a reference point when clarity blurs or
compromise appears reasonable.
Examples:
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“When pressure increases, I will choose transparency even if it slows progress.”
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“I will protect respect in every interaction — especially when emotions are high.”
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“I will not trade speed for integrity.”
🧩 Application Focus
This exercise is designed to deepen your ability to recognize and operationalize values in real decisions.
By isolating one non-negotiable value, examining how it was tested, and defining a reinforcing behavior and alignment
statement, you are training yourself to see values as practical decision filters rather than abstract
ideals. Your goal is to strengthen alignment between what you say matters and how you actually behave when pressure,
ambiguity, or opportunity appears.
Values are not proven when circumstances are easy — values are proven when they are tested.