Unit 2 / Lesson 3 / Section 2.3.10.5    

Purpose, Values & Personal Vision Vision Design Frameworks

Lesson 3 — Values as a Decision OS
Deepening Your Understanding

2.3.10.5. TED Talk

Brené Brown — “The Power of Vulnerability”

At first glance, vulnerability may seem unrelated to values. Yet this talk reveals a fundamental truth: values cannot be practiced without vulnerability. While values provide clarity about what matters, vulnerability provides the courage required to act in alignment — even when the outcome is uncertain, uncomfortable, or unpopular. This TED Talk reinforces the idea that values are not simply beliefs; they are commitments that require exposure, risk, and honesty to become real in practice.

Brown illustrates that vulnerability is not weakness — it is the willingness to be seen without guarantees. This openness is essential for leaders who aim to live their values rather than merely articulate them. Without vulnerability, values remain theoretical because living them requires accountability, transparency, and the possibility of critique. In entrepreneurial leadership, where decisions often carry visible consequences, vulnerability becomes the enabling condition for values-driven behavior.

TED Talk Video
Brené Brown — The Power of Vulnerability
Watch the full talk and reflect on how vulnerability functions as the bridge between what you say you value and how you actually lead under pressure.

Leadership environments — especially entrepreneurial ones — present repeated situations where alignment carries a cost: declining an attractive offer, enforcing a difficult standard, acknowledging a mistake, or confronting behavior that violates stated values. In those moments, vulnerability is the gateway behavior that determines whether values guide action or remain symbolic. Throughout the talk, Brown connects vulnerability with integrity, courage, and trust — reinforcing a key insight: values are not executed through perfection; they are demonstrated through courageous consistency.

Leaders who reject vulnerability typically default to avoidance, justification, or emotional distance. These patterns may preserve image, but they weaken authenticity, dissolve trust, and erode the credibility necessary for values-driven leadership. By contrast, leaders who embrace vulnerability create an environment where alignment, honesty, and accountability are possible — for themselves and for others.

As you watch, reflect on the following questions:

  • Where do I avoid living my values because discomfort is involved?
    Consider moments where fear of judgment, conflict, or uncertainty has influenced your behavior more than your convictions.
  • Where is vulnerability required for my values to become operational rather than aspirational?
    Identify decisions, conversations, or boundaries that demand courage rather than convenience.
  • When have I protected image, approval, or pace at the expense of alignment?
    Observe how avoidance, delay, or adaptation may have replaced authenticity and weakened trust.

The purpose of this talk within the lesson is not emotional reflection for its own sake — it is leadership calibration. Vulnerability enables values to move from internal belief to external behavior. It makes truth actionable. It makes alignment possible. And it ensures that leadership remains human, accountable, and connected to purpose rather than performance alone.

As you continue through this unit, remember:

Values define what matters.
Vulnerability determines whether you actually live by them.